You’ve been hurt by a narcissist and you want to hurt them back. That’s understandable.
You want to turn the tables and beat them at their own game. You want to piss them off, get your revenge, and break them like they tried to break you.
Or perhaps you’ve been watching on as a narcissist has controlled and manipulated one of your friends or loved ones and you wish to destroy them and drive them away.
That’s understandable too.
The desire to right the wrongs that have been done to you or someone you care for is often felt very strongly. You want to do dish up your own version of karma.
What if I told you that any attempt to achieve some sort of personal justice is likely to backfire?
Because that’s the risk you take when you try to hurt a narcissist. You risk ending up getting hurt too.